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Fatherhood
Fatherhood changed me in ways I never could’ve prepared for. And the crazy part is… a part of me always knew it would. Even when I was younger, before I really understood life, I felt a calling to be a father. Something in me was drawn to it — the responsibility, the love, the guidance, the purpose. Now that I’m living it? It’s deeper than anything I imagined. A big part of that comes from my own father. He has always been calm — a steady, grounded type of calm. The kind of m

Kay Felder
Nov 24, 20255 min read


DEARLY BELOVED
Dearly Beloved Part 1 There are moments in life that don’t feel like moments until years later. Moments that felt small when they happened — a conversation, a correction, a push in the right direction — that turn out to be the very foundation of your future. This is the story of a young man named Noah, and the woman who planted seeds in him long before he knew what growth really meant. No, this isn’t a story about me. But it’s a story about all of us — especially those who ca

Kay Felder
Nov 17, 20255 min read


Cookout 2.0: Tributes to the Fallen, Love for the Family
The Block Breathes Again A year later, the block exhales — slower this time, but stronger. Same cracked sidewalks. Same porches. Same trees giving that Sunday shade. But the air hits heavier this time — thicker with memory, thicker with meaning. This year’s cookout isn't just a function. It’s a tribute. A homecoming for the ones we lost, and a celebration for the ones still pushing. The grills pop early. The speakers already loud. Old school and new school fighting for space

Kay Felder
Nov 11, 20254 min read


The Ball and Me: A Journey Through Highs, Lows, and Lessons
Prologue: The Ball and Me Basketball wasn’t just a game for me—it was a mirror. It reflected who I was at every stage of my life. When I...

Kay Felder
Sep 1, 20256 min read


The Heart of the Jackson Middle School Lions: A Journey of Grit and Growth
Nobody expected anything from the Jackson Middle School Lions. They weren’t big. They weren’t flashy. They didn’t have a single player...

Kay Felder
Aug 14, 20254 min read


From a Boy to a Man: Growth, Pain, and Choosing Peace Over Pride
The Journey Begins: Ain’t Nothing Special He wasn’t evil. Just young. Just loud. Just everywhere and nowhere at the same time. You ever...

Kay Felder
Jul 27, 20254 min read


It Starts With Us
Nobody ever handed us a blueprint. We didn’t grow up with silver spoons in our mouths or inherit businesses passed down from granddaddies...

Kay Felder
Jul 9, 20256 min read


Jet's Law: Part 2 - Lines Crossed, Lessons Taught
It started with a shooting. Not just a warning shot. A message. Broad daylight—2:43 PM. Right across from The Bridge. Jet was inside...

Kay Felder
Jun 30, 20254 min read


Shout Out to My Village
You ever just sit with yourself—quiet, still—and really think about how you got here? Not just the wins. Not just the grind. But the...

Kay Felder
Jun 23, 20256 min read


This Is What Matters
Before I had a child, I thought I understood love. I thought love was about loyalty, about being there for someone, about sacrifice. And...

Kay Felder
Jun 10, 20254 min read


Become It
To every youngin’ with a dream—this story is for you. I don’t care if you want to play in the NBA, become the next Serena Williams, run...

Kay Felder
Jun 3, 20255 min read


My Game Spoke When I Couldn't
Growing up Black—especially as a boy—there’s this unspoken rulebook you learn before you can even fully understand yourself. Rule #1: Be...

Kay Felder
May 30, 20254 min read


Jet's Law: Protect the block, build the bridge
Carlos Johnson, known on the east side as Officer Jet, wasn’t the type to hide behind his badge. He earned that nickname growing up—fast...

Kay Felder
May 20, 20253 min read


Date Night - Part 2
“You been hinting… I been listening.” She had been talking about that restaurant all week. Not in a “take me here” type of way—she was...

Kay Felder
May 20, 20253 min read


TRAVEL PLANS?!
I didn’t grow up thinking I’d travel the world. That idea felt far off—like something other people did. Folks with money, connections, or...

Kay Felder
May 16, 20253 min read


Date Night
He didn’t know much about candles. Didn’t grow up watching anyone set the table with cloth napkins or light scented tea lights just for...

Kay Felder
May 13, 20253 min read


Missed Calls & Second Chances – Part 2
Jay had been “Coach Jay” for a little over a year now. The whistle felt natural around his neck. The gym felt like home again. But it hit...

Kay Felder
May 8, 20254 min read


The Cookout 2.0
Welcome to the block. Today ain’t just another day — it’s a whole function you don’t want to miss. The block already buzzing early....

Kay Felder
Apr 29, 20254 min read


Missed Calls & Second Chances
Jay hadn’t touched a basketball in almost two years—not seriously, at least. Not with the same fire that once burned through his chest...

Kay Felder
Apr 21, 20254 min read


"The Greatest Role I’ll Ever Play: Fatherhood”
April 11, 2023. That’s the day everything changed. The day my son, Kai Felder, was born—and the day I stepped into the greatest role I’ll...

Kay Felder
Apr 1, 20252 min read
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