Missed Calls & Second Chances
- Kay Felder

- Apr 21, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: May 8, 2025

Jay hadn’t touched a basketball in almost two years—not seriously, at least. Not with the same fire that once burned through his chest every time he stepped on the court.
His old hoop dreams had dust on them now.
Back in the day, Jay was that guy. The undersized guard out of Eastlake Prep who lit up courts across the state. Then he took his game to Blackridge University—a mid-major with a chip on its shoulder—and made noise from Day 1. He wasn’t just a scorer, he was a floor general. Made dudes around him better. Had the crowd chanting his name before the first half ended.
His crossover was disrespectful. His pull-up jumper, automatic. He made the All-Conference team twice. Even had ESPN whispering.
Then came the draft.
Then came the silence.
Undrafted. Overseas. Ankle injury in Portugal. Failed physical in Turkey. G-League invite that went nowhere.
By 26, Jay was back in Detroit, living in his cousin’s basement, replaying old highlights on YouTube like they were somebody else’s life.
He picked up a warehouse job. Ubered on weekends. Worked out occasionally but didn’t hoop with intent. Didn’t feel the fire anymore. He had his moment… and it passed.
Until the phone rang.
Missed call.
Coach Daniels – Blackridge U.
Jay let it ring. Coach hadn’t called in years.
They hadn’t spoken since Jay left school early.
Daniels told him he wasn’t ready for the draft. Told him to stay one more season, develop more, lead the team one last year. Jay didn’t want to hear it. Felt like Coach was holding him back.
So he bounced. Didn’t even say goodbye.
Now… Coach was calling?
Jay let five more calls go unanswered.
Then, late one night, he finally listened to the voicemail:
“Jay, it’s Coach Daniels. I heard you’re back in the city. Look, I got an assistant spot open. Season starts in two weeks. These boys need somebody real. Somebody who’s been through it. Call me.”
Jay stared at the screen.
Assistant coach? Him?
He laughed to himself and tossed the phone across the bed.
Two days later, he listened to the next voicemail:
“You’re probably thinking you got nothing left to offer. But Jay, your story—your truth—that’s worth more than any playbook. These boys need a coach who’s lived it. Who’s failed, fought, and still shows up.”
Jay couldn’t shake that line.
“These boys need a coach who’s lived it…”
It echoed in his head as he drove past Blackridge’s gym later that week. He didn’t go in. Just parked across the street. Watched a few of the players file in. They looked like how he used to feel—hungry.
He picked up the phone and finally called back.
“You still need that assistant?” Jay asked.
Coach didn’t miss a beat.
“Practice is Monday. Be early.”
Jay showed up at 6:45 AM sharp.
Same court where he made a name. Same walls, same dusty trophy cases. The gym still smelled like sweat, hardwood, and potential.
Coach greeted him with a nod. “You nervous?”
Jay smirked. “I’m here, ain’t I?”
He watched practice in silence at first. Took notes. Studied body language, hustle, effort. He could tell who wanted it and who just liked the idea of it.
One kid stood out—Malik, a lefty sophomore guard. Cocky. Quick. Flashy. But wild. Tried to go 1-on-3 every possession. Didn’t listen when Coach talked.
Jay saw himself.
After practice, he pulled Malik aside.
“You ever heard of me?” Jay asked.
“Yeah,” Malik shrugged. “Coach said you used to play here. You went pro, right?”
Jay nodded. “Something like that.”
Then he pointed at Malik’s shoes.
“You remind me of me. Same flair. Same speed. Same bad habits.”
Malik squinted. “What bad habits?”
Jay smiled. “Trying to win the game every possession. You got the talent—but you don’t know when to slow down. You don’t know how to control the pace yet.”
“Coach says that too,” Malik muttered.
Jay nodded. “Yeah. But I’m the guy who didn’t listen—and it cost me. So either you can learn from my mistakes… or make ‘em yourself.”
That hit Malik different.
From that day on, Jay wasn’t just the assistant. He was the bridge. The translator. The mentor.
Players started staying after practice for film sessions with him. They hit his line when they were going through something. He kept it real. Never sugarcoated.
He told them the truth about the grind. About getting ghosted by agents. About playing in front of 200 people in a cold gym in Europe, and realizing nobody cared unless you scored 30. About what it really meant to love the game.
One night after a game—close win on the road—Coach Daniels tossed him a cold bottle of water.
“You finding your groove?”
Jay nodded. “Yeah. Didn’t know how much I missed this.”
Coach leaned back in his seat.
“You ever regret it?” he asked.
Jay didn’t answer right away.
“Some days,” he said. “But not like I used to. Back then, I thought success was just the NBA. Now? I think success is giving these boys what I never had.”
Coach smiled. “That’s why I kept calling. I knew once you showed up, you’d understand.”
Jay never got his name in lights. Never got the draft-night suit.
But he got his second chance.
Not to play.
To pour into the next generation.
To be the voice he needed when he was 19.
And all it took… was seven missed calls.




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