POISON IVY PART II: THE ITCH

I told myself I wasn’t going to overthink it.

It was just a message.

Three words.

“Hope you’re okay.”

That’s all.

Nothing romantic.

Nothing emotional.

Nothing that should’ve had the power to affect me the way it did.

But it did.

Because sometimes it’s not the message.

It’s who sent it.

I responded.

Simple.

Casual.

Just enough to be polite.

At least that’s what I told myself.

The conversation lasted ten minutes.

Then twenty.

Then an hour.

Before I knew it, we were talking the same way we used to.

Laughing.

Joking.

Catching up on life.

She told me about the new apartment she’d rented on the north side of town, a place with creaky hardwood floors and a balcony that overlooked a busy street full of late-night food trucks.

I told her about the promotion I’d finally gotten at work and how it came with more responsibility than excitement.

We traded stories about mutual friends.

People who had gotten married.

Moved away.

Started families.

Changed careers.

The kind of updates that make you realize how much life has happened while you weren’t looking.

It felt familiar.

Too familiar.

That’s the dangerous thing about history.

You don’t have to rebuild it.

The connection is already there.

It just wakes up.

For the next few weeks, we talked here and there.

Nothing serious.

A few texts.

A phone call.

A random meme.

An occasional check-in.

Sometimes she’d send me a picture of a bookstore she thought I’d like.

Sometimes I’d send her a song that reminded me of a road trip we once took.

Little things.

Harmless things.

The kind of things that slowly become part of your routine before you realize they have.

Both of us pretending it wasn’t becoming something again.

The funny thing about people is that we often lie to ourselves before we lie to anyone else.

I knew I still cared about her.

She knew she still cared about me.

Neither of us said it.

But both of us knew.

Then one night she called.

Not texted.

Called.

I remember looking at my phone.

Her name glowing on the screen.

For a second I considered letting it ring.

I should have.

Instead, I answered.

We talked for nearly three hours.

About everything.

Life.

Work.

Family.

Relationships.

The people we’d dated since each other.

The mistakes we’d made.

The things we’d learned.

She told me about a relationship that lasted almost a year before falling apart because neither of them wanted the same future.

I admitted that I’d spent too much time burying myself in work because it was easier than dealing with loneliness.

We laughed about old memories.

The disastrous camping trip where it rained the entire weekend.

The tiny diner outside Millbrook where we used to order breakfast at midnight.

The inside jokes that somehow survived all the time apart.

It felt good.

Too good.

When we finally hung up, I sat there staring at my ceiling.

Because for the first time in months, I felt hopeful.

And hope can be dangerous.

Especially when you’ve already lived through the ending once.

A week later we met for coffee.

Just coffee.

At least that’s what we called it.

Nobody drives thirty minutes and spends three hours talking over coffee just to catch up.

We both knew that.

But neither of us acknowledged it.

The café sat on a quiet corner downtown.

A small place with exposed brick walls, mismatched chairs, and the smell of fresh espresso hanging in the air.

I got there first.

When she walked through the door wearing a dark green jacket and that familiar smile, it felt like someone had pressed play on a movie I thought had ended.

The conversation felt effortless.

Like no time had passed.

Like all the hurt.

All the distance.

All the months apart had disappeared.

We talked about books we’d read.

Places we wanted to visit.

Goals we still hadn’t accomplished.

At one point she laughed so hard she nearly spilled her coffee, and for a moment I forgot every reason we had ever broken up.

That was the problem.

The good moments always made the difficult ones harder to remember.

Over the next couple of weeks, we settled into something that neither of us wanted to define.

Not because we didn’t know what it was.

Because we knew exactly what it was.

Labels force people to tell the truth.

And neither of us was ready for that yet.

So we stayed in the gray area.

The place where feelings exist without accountability.

The place where hope can grow without being questioned.

One Thursday night she called while I was driving home.

No reason.

No emergency.

She just wanted to talk.

Those were always my favorite conversations.

The ones that happened naturally.

The ones that reminded me why I fell for her in the first place.

Somewhere during that call, she started laughing about something that happened at work.

A real laugh.

The kind that can’t be faked.

The kind that makes other people smile even when they don’t know why.

And for a second I caught myself thinking about what life would’ve looked like if things had worked out differently.

If timing had been better.

If circumstances had been different.

If two people who cared about each other could somehow skip all the complicated parts and just exist in the good moments.

But life doesn’t work like that.

The good moments are never the whole story.

They’re just the part we like to remember.

A few days later, she sent me an old picture.

Nothing special.

Just the two of us sitting at a baseball game years ago.

Neither of us looking at the camera.

Both of us laughing about something neither of us could remember anymore.

Under the picture she wrote:

“Crazy how long ago this was.”

I stared at that message longer than I should have.

Because what she really meant wasn’t hard to understand.

She wasn’t talking about the picture.

She was talking about us.

About everything we’d been through.

About everything we’d lost.

About everything that still somehow felt unfinished.

I typed three different responses before sending one.

“Yeah. Doesn’t feel that long though.”

Three dots appeared.

Then disappeared.

Then appeared again.

Finally she replied.

“Some things don’t really leave you.”

I wish I could say I ignored what she meant.

I didn’t.

I knew exactly what she meant.

Because I felt it too.

And that’s when things truly started changing.

Not because either of us said we wanted another chance.

Not because either of us admitted how we felt.

But because from that moment forward, neither of us could pretend the feelings weren’t still there.

A few days later, she invited me to see her new apartment.

Nothing formal.

Just takeout and a chance to finally see the place she’d been describing for weeks.

I told myself it wasn’t a big deal.

Friends visit friends.

Friends eat dinner together.

Friends sit on balconies talking long after the food is gone.

At least that was the story I kept repeating.

The apartment looked exactly how I imagined it would.

Books stacked in uneven piles.

Plants she was trying very hard not to kill.

A collection of framed photographs leaning against walls because she still hadn’t decided where to hang them.

It felt lived in.

Comfortable.

Like her.

We sat outside while the city buzzed below us.

Talking about everything and nothing.

At some point there was a pause.

Not an awkward one.

The kind that only happens when two people are completely comfortable with each other.

She looked at me.

I looked at her.

And for a second neither of us looked away.

That moment lingered longer than it should have.

Long enough to say things neither of us was ready to say out loud.

When I left that night, the line between friendship and something more felt thinner than ever.

After that, the boundaries kept shifting.

Slowly.

Almost invisibly.

Good morning texts became daily habits.

Phone calls stretched later into the night.

We started sharing things we didn’t tell other people.

The fears.

The frustrations.

The private thoughts that usually stay locked away.

It felt natural.

Which made it even more dangerous.

Because comfort has a way of disguising risk.

You stop questioning things when they feel familiar.

You stop paying attention to the reasons you were careful in the first place.

Then came the first crack.

Small enough to ignore.

Big enough to matter.

We were talking about the future.

Not our future.

At least not directly.

Just life.

Career goals.

Places we wanted to live.

The usual conversation.

But somewhere in the middle of it, I noticed something.

The same difference that had existed between us before was still there.

The same disagreement about what we wanted our lives to look like five years from now.

The same conflict we once convinced ourselves we could work around.

Neither of us argued.

Neither of us got upset.

We simply acknowledged it and moved on.

But I couldn’t stop thinking about it afterward.

Because some problems don’t disappear with time.

They just become easier to ignore when emotions return.

When I got home that night, I caught myself smiling.

That’s when I knew I was in trouble.

Because I recognized the feeling.

The comfort.

The familiarity.

The attachment.

The exact things I spent months trying to escape.

And the worst part?

I wasn’t even trying to stop it.

Deep down, I wanted it.

I wanted another chance.

I wanted a different ending.

I wanted proof that love could overcome what separated us before.

What I didn’t realize was that the same issues waiting for us at the end the first time…

Were still waiting for us now.

The conversations became more frequent.

The feelings became harder to ignore.

And the warning signs we once promised ourselves we’d never overlook started blending into the background again.

Some lessons don’t leave when people do.

They sit quietly.

Waiting for your feelings to get loud enough to ignore them again.

Waiting for the perfect moment to remind you why the story ended the first time.

Because poison ivy never hurts when you first touch it.

At first, it looks harmless.

Almost beautiful.

You convince yourself it’s different this time.

You convince yourself you’ve learned enough to avoid the pain.

But poison ivy doesn’t work that way.

The itch comes later.

Long after you’ve gotten comfortable.

Long after you’ve let your guard down.

Long after you’ve convinced yourself everything is fine.

And by the time you realize what’s happening…

It’s already under your skin.

And the scary part was that I knew it.

I saw every red flag.

I remembered every reason we didn’t work the first time.

But when your heart starts winning arguments your mind already settled, logic becomes a lot easier to ignore.

And somewhere between hope, history, and habit, I found myself standing in the exact same place I promised I’d never return to.

To Be Continued…

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